Showing posts with label Henrietta Maria Neale. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Henrietta Maria Neale. Show all posts

Monday, November 11, 2019

#52 Ancestors 2019 Week 45 Rich Man: Richard Bennett III Maryland's First Multimillionaire


Although he is barely remembered now, in the early 18th-century, Richard Bennett's name was a household word.  He owned thousands of acres of land and built his own fleet of merchant vessels. His obituary in the Maryland Gazette in 1749 described him as the greatest trader in the Province and the richest man on the continent, while also praising his great generosity to widows and orphans.

Richard Bennett III, born in 1667 in Queen Anne's County MD, was the son of Richard Bennett II and Henrietta Maria Neale and the grandson of Richard Bennett, governor of Virginia.  Richard's father drowned when he was about 4 months old and Henrietta married again to Philemon Lloyd of Wye House, with whom she had eight children.  The beautiful Madam Lloyd was one of the most glamorous and powerful women of her day.

Richard and his sister Susanna were brought up Catholic and stuck to their faith even when Catholics were persecuted in Maryland.

After Madam Lloyd's death in 1697, Richard embarked on a land-buying spree all over the Eastern Shore of Maryland and began building a business empire the likes of which Maryland had not seen before.  When the price of tobacco plunged and planters lost their plantations, Richard stepped in to purchase the properties, making himself one of the largest landowners in Maryland.

Although Richard married Elizabeth Rousby (daughter of John Rousby), she pre-deceased him and they had no children.  So, when Richard lay dying in 1749, the big question on everyone's mind was who would be his heir?  He drew up a new 16-page will shortly before his death and signed it on his deathbed, naming 275 actual or potential beneficiaries and disposing of an estate that was the equivalent of millions of dollars in modern terms.

However, the deathbed will led to a Dickensian court battle when one of the witnesses declared that Richard had not been competent to sign at the time of his death, and his Catholic relatives protested when his Protestant nephew Edward Lloyd was named as executor. In the end, the will was carried out as written and the fortunes of several prominent Eastern Shore families were made as a result. Nearly 25,000 acres of land were distributed and scores of debts forgiven when the will was probated.

Richard was buried at Bennett's Point, but for many years his grave and his wife's lay hidden under a tangle of vines.  Only recently has it been restored so that this inscription can be read:

Here lieth the body of Richard Bennett Esq., who was born the 16th of September 1667, and died ye 11th of October 1749. His Father Died Young His Grandfather, who was also named Richard Bennett, was Governor of Virginia. No man was more Esteemed in Life In all Ranks of People than He, And this Esteem proceeded from his Benevolent & Charitable Disposition, Added to a Vast Depth of Understanding. To His Memory this Tombstone is dedicated by his Nephew, The Honourable Edward Lloyd Esq.




Monday, June 3, 2019

#52 Ancestors 2019 Week 23 Namesake--Henrietta Maria Neale, Grandmother of the Eastern Shore

#52 Ancestors 2019 Week 23 Namesake--Henrietta Maria Neale, Grandmother of the Eastern Shore
Queen Henrietta Maria

Henrietta Maria Neale, the daughter of James Neale and Anna Maria Gill, and my 9X great-grandmother, was herself a namesake to Queen Henrietta Maria, wife of King Charles I.  Henrietta's mother was said to have been a lady-in-waiting to the queen and family tradition says the queen was godmother to her namesake.

Henrietta Maria Neale was born in Spain in 1647, as her father served as the King's representative there.  James and his family later came to Maryland, receiving a land grant for services to the crown.

Henrietta married twice, first to Richard Bennett and second to Philemon Lloyd, and had twelve children with her two husbands.  Her son Richard Bennett III was the wealthiest man in Maryland in the early 1700's and her son Edward Lloyd became acting Governor of Maryland from 1709 to 1713.

But Henrietta's claim to fame was not her sons.  Madam Lloyd, as she was known, was not only the wealthiest woman on the Eastern Shore, but also its social leader and a capable business woman who managed the complex affairs of Wye House. She had wealth, beauty, and power, as well as fierce independence.  She founded such a prolific dynasty of descendants that she has been referred to as the "Grandmother of the Eastern Shore." A daughter named Henrietta Marie shows up at least once, and often more, in every generation.

Henrietta's daughter Susanna Maria Bennett produced two namesake daughters, one with each of her two husbands--Henrietta Maria Darnall (1684, daughter of John Darnall) and Henrietta Maria Lowe (1697, daughter of Col Henry Lowe.)

Henrietta Maria Chew
 Her son Philemon Lloyd named his first daughter Henrietta Maria in 1710.  She went on to marry Samuel Chew and name her first daughter Henrietta Maria Chew in 1728.  When that little girl died a year later, the name was also given to the second daughter in 1730.  Henrietta Maria Chew married Edward Dorsey and named her first daughter Henrietta Maria Dorsey.

Madam Lloyd's son James Lloyd married Ann Grundy and named his first daughter Henrietta Maria Lloyd in 1711. That daughter married Samuel Chamberlaine and named two daughters Henrietta Maria, the second born after the death of the first.
Henrietta Maria Tilghman


Madam Lloyd's daughter Anna Maria married Colonel Richard Tilghman and produced a daughter Henrietta Maria Tilghman 1707.  She married George Robins and had a daughter Henrietta Maria in 1736.
By the time of her death in 1697, just about every important family on the Eastern Shore of Maryland had a connection by marriage to Madam Lloyd and most had a namesake daughter in the house.

Her epitaph is still visible in the Lloyd family graveyard at Wye House:

Henrietta Maria Lloyd
Shee who now takes her rest within this tomb,
Had Rachell's face and Lea's fruitful womb,
Abigail's wisdom, Lydea's faithful heart,
with Martha's care and Mary's better part.
Who died this 21st day of May,
Anno Dom. 1697